Deep Thoughts

There recently was a death in my husband's family, and it is has been interesting to see how the emotions of the various members have played out. While I will be the first to admit that I do not handle death well (which is one of the reasons why I chose to work with kids), it never ceases to amaze me the various reactions and emotions that such an event brings out in people. I think I prefer the deep South's way of handling the situation, by making it a celebration of life rather than the focus on the loss or why such a thing has happened. However, the celebration is not always an easy thing to do.

As I sit back and watch the emotions and dynamics play out amongst my in-laws, the one thing I know and am grateful for is the knowledge of the concept of eternal families, forgiveness, repentance, and the Atonement. It makes things so much less final and gloomy. It's hard to watch others who don't have that knowledge, nor want to, attempt to process the finality of death.

It is also interesting from a therapist's viewpoint watch the cycle of grief come into play with everyone in their various steps of the process. Everyone has their own reaction and way to deal with such events. Time heals all wounds, but it's in the meantime that can be difficult and lead to strong emotional reactions.

All I know is this: I am grateful for my husband. I am grateful for the knowledge I have regarding the concept of eternity and the Atonement. I am grateful for a father-in-law who remains calm in a storm. I am grateful I live far, far away, and am removed from the drama.